April is National Child Abuse Prevention Month. It is a time to raise awareness about child abuse and neglect and encourage individuals and communities to actively support children and families.
The number of Utah’s children identified as victims of abuse and neglect by the Utah Division of Child and Family Services in 2008 were 8,284. Children between the ages of 0-5 years comprised 42 percent of all supported victims. Domestic violence is the most frequently supported allegation, at 32 percent. Sexual abuse is the second most supported allegation at 24 percent. Those statistics only reflect the abuse that is reported and investigated. There are many other children who are the silent victims. Who are still out there being abused.
The causes of child abuse and neglect are numerous and complex. All families want to raise safe, healthy, successful children. Most of us cannot imagine what would make an adult abuse a child. Sadly, every day, across our country, the very people children rely on for protection and comfort subject them to abuse or neglect.
All types of child abuse and neglect leave lasting scars. Some of these scars might be physical, but emotional scarring has long lasting effects throughout life, damaging a child’s sense of self and ability to have healthy relationships.
You can make a difference. You may be reluctant to interfere in someone’s family, but you could be the only one that can stop the abuse. The earlier abused children get help, the greater chance they have to heal from their abuse and not perpetuate the cycle.
Here are some suggestions of what we can do to reduce and prevent child abuse:
First of all, we need to know the signs of abuse and neglect when we see them. And then, we need to know where to go to report it so it can be stopped. In Utah, the Child and Family Services Intake Hotline number for reporting child abuse is 1-800-678-9399. All calls are kept confidential and can be done anonymously, if desired.
Next, and just as important, is prevention. The best way to prevent child abuse and neglect is to educate parents in successful, positive parenting skills and to help strengthen families. In Utah, Healthy Families Utah and Safe Families Utah both offer in-home parenting education to first-time parents, parents with older children, and at-risk parents. Each community also offers parenting classes through a variety of organizations.
Together, we can make a difference, as we envision a place where all children are protected and safe.